A Crafter’s Paradise
Let me confess…I haven’t been to BJ Complex or its surrounding shops in years.
So it’s no wonder that I didn’t know about this great little shop that anyone who is interested in making crafts will go absolutely crazy over.
It’s called You Mei and upon entering you will spy rolls and rolls of ribbons, laces, sequins and strings of beads. They also have ready assembled flowers, butterflies and such that you can take and sew to your clothes or add to your craft work immediately.
Man, I should have come to this place when I started doing my belly dance costume instead of canvassing every shop in the town area. The people in the shop were really helpful and knowledgeable. In fact, LT, one of my class girls spent a whole day there so that they can give her a quick tutorial to sew her bra.
Initially, I was really naive when I thought that I can finish the whole thing with just one type of silver sequins and beads. How wrong I was. I bought some additional materials from them today including three lovely butterflies for my skirt. Not sure how I’m gonna use them, but they will definitely save me lots of time.
I’ve completed both cups now and am starting with the staps. If I thought doing the cups were hard, the straps prove to be harder still because I have to take into consideration that they need to stretch and their flimsiness make holding the sequins in place difficult.
Some girls in the class played about with the idea that after our performance they can sell off their costumes to help raise funds for charity, maybe at the next WBD. It’s a good idea and definitely will prevent having another costume taking up space in our closet.
But for me, I don’t know if I’ll be able to part with it after spending so much effort just making it.
Truly this hafla is the personification of the term “blood, sweat and tears”.
Blood because of all the tiny needle pricks I got.
Sweat because practicing in the workout studio on Saturdays is like practicing in a sauna.
Tears, well, there were some with the needle pricks.
Girls, Gambateh!
Thanks for all your help, You Mei. You’ve definitely given me lots of ideas to digest.






